In an increasingly connected world, where we change countries to go study, work or simply for the pleasure of traveling, it is increasingly common to end up forming a relationship with someone of a different nationality than our own.
At Nitidia Weddings we receive many couples with this case, full of questions after getting engaged. Not only do they have all the planning ahead of them, but they also have a great desire to merge their traditions and customs with those of their partner for their future wedding. But how to achieve this without going crazy while trying?
Today we bring you 6 practical tips that you can't miss if you are going to have a multicultural wedding:
First things first: sit down together and decide which traditions are essential for you and which ones you can leave out. I wish you could include all of them at all times, but you will most likely have to prioritize, so our advice is to stick with the ones that really excite you and define your identity - both individually and as a couple!
You can also take advantage and start thinking if you want to add a nod to your cultures or countries (in case they are different) through food, music or even decoration. Everything is valid, so whatever you can think of!
If you are combining two cultures in your wedding, it is extremely important that you talk to your families. Let them know about the plans and changes you are making so you can better manage their expectations. Communication is key.
This way, they will also have the confidence to fully participate in the day, and you will avoid unexpected surprises, both on your side and theirs. Be proactive.
It's easy to assume that all of your guests will participate in all the traditions, since they know and love you. That's right, they'll probably be the first to try everything! But perhaps they could use a little background or extra information to help them understand the traditions of both cultures.
You can introduce the rituals and customs during the wedding through posters, in the ceremony program itself or in the speeches. This way, everyone will be able to participate and fully enjoy the day together with you.
If your cultures have different religions, talk to the representatives of each religion to coordinate the ceremony. Find out if it is possible to do them together or if you should do them separately to respect both beliefs.
Once you have decided where you are going to have your wedding, it is likely that many of your guests will have to come from another country. For those who are coming from abroad, you can prepare a small guide with useful information for the event, such as maps, public transportation and practical details such as nearby hairdressers and dry cleaners.
Don't underestimate the importance of having a wedding planner who understands and respects the different cultures you are merging. In the end, they will be your allies. Their experience will be invaluable in ensuring that everything goes perfectly and that each tradition is celebrated with the respect it deserves.
By merging your cultures at the wedding, you are creating something unique and truly personal. You are designing your own tradition, born out of your union. That's why your wedding will become a celebration of love and diversity that will always reflect your identity as a couple.
And so, with these tools, you are ready to embark on the exciting adventure of planning a multicultural wedding.
If you have any remaining questions, we are here to help you every step of the way - let the celebration begin!
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